Most people start looking for answers to questions, which is why I am not succeeding in my life. Even after hard work and efforts, and yes, it is a genuine question why I am not making any progress after doing lots of work,. But we always forget to notice the growth that you already developed in your past journey when you look back at where you started and where you are now. You will see changes. There is nothing in the world where you are working and you are not getting results. Yes, the result portion can be smaller, but there is always growth happening in the background in the face of your personality change, your thinking change, the way you were working today is different, and so many things are happening.
But one thing I will add here is very crucial for your success. We have to understand that success is not just about hard work and effort; these activities will move you from point 1 to point 2, but never forget that success always comes from inside to outside, not outside to inside.
Success is about your realization. There, you realize all the experience and effort you are putting in, especially from your failures. When you assemble all these experiences and start developing a deeper understanding of your path, then your real success path and movement start in your life. Yes, it will take time. Success is not about a quick scheme. There you start today, and tomorrow you succeed. Here we will look at some points on what stops you from succeeding in your life and what you can do to make it happen.
Direction
If you want to succeed in your life, then you have to have one direction in your life. It does not matter right now; you are not able to see the end point or not, or this path could be right for you or not, but whenever you start anything in your life where you want to succeed, you have to be in some direction. As you start taking steps in your directions, you will create experience, and by this experience, you will get a better understanding of your future upcoming steps. As you start getting a little more mature on your path, you will be able to create a clear destination, but before that, you have to just start in some direction.
Reason
This one is very important if you want to succeed in life. The reason you want to succeed. This is important because the success path is not going to be easy; it will come with many challenges, and when you have your reason for wanting to be successful in your life, then this can give you the motivation that you need to overcome life challenges. If you don’t have any reason, you are most probably going to struggle in your path when any big obstacles come your way, and due to no reason, many people quit and move on to their previous lives by making excuses that this is not for me, this is not possible, and so on, but when you have reason, you work and overcome them.
Always remember that in any area of your life, if you are looking for growth, obstacles and challenges will be there. This you cannot replace with the smooth experience of your life; it will be frustrating and painful, your stress level will be at its peak, and there are so many ways mental attachment will happen to you, but you have to keep going.
Planning
Don’t ever try to make any planning of your life like a one-way path to your success. Believe me, it cannot be. There is no plan who can only succeed in your life. Yes, it will be an important tool in your life, which you have to adjust according to your needs on your path as per your experiences and requirements. Your plans can change, and you should change as per the outcome you are getting. If you try to stick with one plan, believe me, somewhere you will get stuck and there will be no way all roads that can drive to your destination will be blocked, but when you get on drawing from there, you can make a new one to overcome the situations, so be flexible with your approaches as per need.
Failure
Your first attempt could be a failure. The second attempt can also be the same, and the third can also be the same, and now at this stage you will start doubting why this is not happening, but when you start observing the steps and planning you are implementing on your path to success, you will find that each failure gives you the lesson that you need for your next steps. But the problem we create is that we start doubting ourselves and never try to look for the lesson, but as you start looking for the lesson, then you have to just follow.
Reflection
Here your main role comes, which is self-realization. When you reflect on all your past actions and give yourself time to understand the reason for all your experiences, then you start developing a better understanding of your path, and as you start developing a deeper understanding of your path, you will see your actions and results becoming more effective because here most probably you will get aware of every direction of destination to which you are traveling or about to travel. You are learning from each failure, and your intention to succeed is getting stronger because now your destination picture is getting a clear picture in your mental faculty, and here the game changes.
Repeat
Repetition is like a car gearbox. When you are riding a car, you have to change gear as per traffic, and as you get free, your speed gets boosted. The same way, on your success path, you have to repeat certain things after each failure, or for better understanding, repetition gives you a clear understanding, and on your success path, your understanding is very important. Without a clear understanding, you cannot claim the next steps of your life.